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I wanted to make a post where I went a bit more in depth into the potentially problematic content in this story. Every new chapter will link back to this post, in addition to a short list of warnings specific to the chapter. Yes, this is a ridiculous story, but it touches upon subjects that would be serious in real life. Unlike my previous Sim-stories, The Brianna Files is TS4. In my experience, TS4 is much less batshit loony than TS2 or even TS3, which in some ways can make things that happen in it feel more real. This in turn means that this story is slightly more serious in nature than Travecy and my other legacy stories.


CWs:

* Brianna herself. She is who she is: slightly ignorant, very generic, from a background that would certainly cause you to be problematic at times. If you haven't read The Starbloom Travecy, which is a TS2 story with all the crazysauce of that game, you don't know just how ludicrous her background is. And if you have read it, then you know that Brianna has done some very questionable things in her past. This is the story about her attempt at a journey towards becoming a better version of herself, but she starts out with many problems, dude. Some of it is obvious, other things are revealed more in a "show, don't tell" kind of way.

* Me, TigerAnne. Let's be real, I'm the one writing this. Raelynn is just another of my characters, who I chose to be the narrative voice of the Starblooms. Much like Brianna, I come from a cultural background that has its differences from that of many people in the Sims community. Things that are, or used to be, normal to me could seem outrageous and unacceptable to others. I try to keep it in mind while writing, but I'm only a fallible human. Also, I don't know every stupid stereotype and prejudice that exists somewhere out there. English is also my second language, so there have been times when I've known what a word meant, but not that it was only used by a specific group or culture. I may in fact make mistakes with grammar and spelling too.

* Raelynn, our narrator. She's stuck in a time-warp, unable to age beyond 15, so she's very mentally and emotionally stunted. Occasionally she'll break off from the narrative, to go on a wild tangent, or to tell an anecdote starring herself and her weirdass family.

* It's a darkish comedy, so it will have occasional gallows humor and slightly offensive jokes.

* Keep in mind that the characters in this story represent only themselves, and no one else. Even Brianna, the basic skinny white girl that she is, is only Brianna. This is a story with a lot of WEIRD characters, and they're not based on you. I don't think that all professional female gamers with teal hair and tats have Maegan's kind of problems, or anything. However, for a story to be interesting it needs to have a bit of drama and conflict, and my characters are pretty good at causing those.

* There will be in-game deaths on occasion, as well as mention of deaths that have occurred off camera. I try to stick to death causes that are statistically uncommon or plain impossible in real life, but it's still discussion of people dying.

* Practically all of my Sims keep pets, usually cats and/or dogs. I have them spayed and neutered, which is also a practice I support in real life. Since the game defaults to free-range cats and dogs, I allow that in my gameplay and storytelling. Some characters who shouldn't have pets, at least not the pets they have, do occur in the story.

* The story features a young child as one of the central characters, and other children will appear later on. There will be instances of less than stellar parenting, on and off screen. The characters will express their own opinons on how to raise children, which aren't necessarily my opinions. I'll make jokes about dysfunctional families, however.

* The characters live in many different kinds of household/family structures, from the modern and unconventional to the very traditional. Family is an emotional topic to all of us, because we've all been in some kind of family situation, and it's shaped who we've become. Even those of us who were raised by the chickens on Grandpa's farm have our good and bad memories of it. I'm trying not to pass judgement on any kind of family arrangement, because IMO whether a family is good or bad depends SO MUCH MORE on the individuals who make it up than on the composition.

* My Sim-aesthetic is cartoony, and my characters don't necessarily look like "real people." This goes both ways, as some of them are unrealistically pretty and some are downright hideous. Brianna, in particular, is a gym rat who has much of her social scene at the various gyms. There will be depictions of Sims working out and losing weight, occasionally becoming incredibly hench.

* You'll see characters wearing somewhat revealing clothes, as well as all kinds of alternative fashions and cheugy soccer-mom threads. EVEN SAD BEIGE.

* Characters will be bad role-models. This includes the protagonists on occasion.

* There will be depictions and descriptions of unethical behaviours such as bullying, gaslighting, guilt-tripping, faking illness, compulsive lying and false rumours. Much of this is shown as happening on social media, since several of the main cast are some kind of influencers.

* I play with very few game mods, so any depiction of violence and sexuality will be the kind you see in the vanilla game. In other words, if you're looking for empowering erotic fantasies, don't read this! You'll be so disappointed. There will be mentions of implied sexual acts and bodily functions, but nothing explicit.

* (I also have an irrational dislike for the term "vanilla" when you mean to say that nothing has been added, because most things that taste or smell of vanilla have indeed had vanilla flavouring added to them. Ice cream without any flavouring tastes like whipped cream, you know?)

* My game is chock full of CC. I play on a desktop that can apparently handle it, as it doesn't groan and moan half as much about my loaded TS4 game as it does when I fire up my absolute babby that is Planet Zoo. If you're playing on a laptop, you may not be able to stuff as much CC into it before it starts struggling. I'm generally WCIF friendly, if I can remember where I got it from.

* I seriously DO NOT CARE about the whole Maxis-Match-versus-Alpha CC debate. You do you, and don't let anyone pressure you into not playing a game you find aesthetically rewarding. I play Maxis-Mix and it is righteous. (Also, "alpha" is a meshing technique, not a specific aesthetic. It doesn't always mean the same as "semi-realistic" or "photo-realistic." You can have Maxis-matchy textures on an alpha mesh, and photoskinned textures on an EA-style mesh.)

* I am aware that TS4 as a game is flawed and glitchy, and I'll point it out.


TWs

* None of the general ones. If you have a particular trigger, feel free send me an anonymous message and ask.

Nora Roberts/JD Robb

Sep. 5th, 2025 08:36 pm[personal profile] lightreads
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Identity

3/5. One of her standalone romantic suspense titles, this one about a woman whose life is wrecked and best friend murdered by an identity thief, so she goes back to her hometown and rebuilds. Classic Roberts – homemaking in the literal sense, rebuilding from the ruins, deep family connections, a romance that does not take top billing. I liked this one. The hero is actually interesting, which is not the case with many of hers, and the set dressing about the trade of bartending and hospitality in general is a welcome departure.

Framed in Death

3/5. A pretty standard procedural about an artist turning to murder to get famous or whatever. I was not feeling this one – too formula, but what do I expect after 60 something books of formula, honestly. But then this was my audiobook during 90+ minutes of extensive and painful dental work, to which I also brought my simmering case of PTSD from that time I woke out of anesthesia in the middle of eye surgery and that is triggered by having people with instruments right there in my face, which makes dental work, you know. Not great. Aaaanyway, this book basically held my hand for 90 minutes, so you know what, long live the formula.

Sidebar: I am utterly boggled by the system of legalized prostitution she has half-imagined here. Not the legalized part, with mandatory STD testing for licensure and all that. No, I’m boggled by a throwaway reference to a “street LC,” who basically bangs people for cash in alleys, getting ready to . . . apply to move up? … Wait. Apply to whom? There is a government licensing body that decides who is eligible for street solicitation versus . . . what exactly? Nora. I have so many questions. You have no answers.
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Rakesfall

3/5. Chandrasekera’s first book made a splash, but this one really didn’t. I didn’t know why until I read it, and now I’m pretty sure it’s because no one wants to talk about it and demonstrate that they have no freaking clue what it’s about.

I’m . . . sort of . . . kidding. This is a strange passage of a book. It is ostensibly about two people who are instantiated across many lives over huge spans of time, and how they relate to each other, and how they don’t. It’s also about colonialism and modes of resistance and a sort of cosmic war. Probably?

Mostly, it’s a beautifully written piece with extremely clever intertextual stylings that is disorienting (on purpose, but I suspect he thought he was being much clearer than I think he is) and that does the reader only a few very basic favors in trying to figure out what is what. Or who is who, from chapter to chapter. Read if you like that sort of experience of disorienting fragments stitched together into something that, for me, did not resolve much at all.

Content notes: Many kinds of interpersonal and terroristic violence.

Code deploy happening shortly

Aug. 31st, 2025 07:37 pm[staff profile] mark posting in [site community profile] dw_maintenance
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Per the [site community profile] dw_news post regarding the MS/TN blocks, we are doing a small code push shortly in order to get the code live. As per usual, please let us know if you see anything wonky.

There is some code cleanup we've been doing that is going out with this push but I don't think there is any new/reworked functionality, so it should be pretty invisible if all goes well.

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A reminder to everyone that starting tomorrow, we are being forced to block access to any IP address that geolocates to the state of Mississippi for legal reasons while we and Netchoice continue fighting the law in court. People whose IP addresses geolocate to Mississippi will only be able to access a page that explains the issue and lets them know that we'll be back to offer them service as soon as the legal risk to us is less existential.

The block page will include the apology but I'll repeat it here: we don't do geolocation ourselves, so we're limited to the geolocation ability of our network provider. Our anti-spam geolocation blocks have shown us that their geolocation database has a number of mistakes in it. If one of your friends who doesn't live in Mississippi gets the block message, there is nothing we can do on our end to adjust the block, because we don't control it. The only way to fix a mistaken block is to change your IP address to one that doesn't register as being in Mississippi, either by disconnecting your internet connection and reconnecting it (if you don't have a static IP address) or using a VPN.

In related news, the judge in our challenge to Tennessee's social media age verification, parental consent, and parental surveillance law (which we are also part of the fight against!) ruled last month that we had not met the threshold for a temporary injunction preventing the state from enforcing the law while the court case proceeds.

The Tennesee law is less onerous than the Mississippi law and the fines for violating it are slightly less ruinous (slightly), but it's still a risk to us. While the fight goes on, we've decided to prevent any new account signups from anyone under 18 in Tennessee to protect ourselves against risk. We do not need to block access from the whole state: this only applies to new account creation.

Because we don't do any geolocation on our users and our network provider's geolocation services only apply to blocking access to the site entirely, the way we're implementing this is a new mandatory question on the account creation form asking if you live in Tennessee. If you do, you'll be unable to register an account if you're under 18, not just the under 13 restriction mandated by COPPA. Like the restrictions on the state of Mississippi, we absolutely hate having to do this, we're sorry, and we hope we'll be able to undo it as soon as possible.

Finally, I'd like to thank every one of you who's commented with a message of support for this fight or who's bought paid time to help keep us running. The fact we're entirely user-supported and you all genuinely understand why this fight is so important for everyone is a huge part of why we can continue to do this work. I've also sent a lot of your comments to the lawyers who are fighting the actual battles in court, and they find your wholehearted support just as encouraging and motivating as I do. Thank you all once again for being the best users any social media site could ever hope for. You make me proud and even more determined to yell at state attorneys general on your behalf.

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Murder by Other Means by John Scalzi

3/5. A novella in a series about a world where people who are murdered come back to life 999 times out of 1,000, except natural deaths still stick. I was hiding from my library book (shut up, it happens) and let Audible give this to me for free.

I read the second novella first by accident, and had a decent time. It’s one of those stories that I’m never going to really love because it is built around thinking through the implications of a single premise and how that would change society, but there’s no attempt to actually explain anything, and that’s probably for the best because there is no explanation that would be interesting or satisfying. The implications are mildly interesting, though – how do you murder someone under these constraints, for one? So, entertaining enough, but meh.

Then I realized I read the second one first and tried to read the first one and no, please, stop. The tortured infodumping is just so bad, I cannot. Apparently ‘second in a series, we assume you already know how this works’ is the degree of explanation I want for this sort of shallow construct.

Also, Zachary Quinto narrates these (Audible Originals, they do that sort of thing) and he’s . . . aggressively okay at it. Aggressively okay is kind of the whole vibe.
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I'll start with the tl;dr summary to make sure everyone sees it and then explain further: As of September 1, we will temporarily be forced to block access to Dreamwidth from all IP addresses that geolocate to Mississippi for legal reasons. This block will need to continue until we either win the legal case entirely, or the district court issues another injunction preventing Mississippi from enforcing their social media age verification and parental consent law against us.

Mississippi residents, we are so, so sorry. We really don't want to do this, but the legal fight we and Netchoice have been fighting for you had a temporary setback last week. We genuinely and honestly believe that we're going to win it in the end, but the Fifth Circuit appellate court said that the district judge was wrong to issue the preliminary injunction back in June that would have maintained the status quo and prevented the state from enforcing the law requiring any social media website (which is very broadly defined, and which we definitely qualify as) to deanonymize and age-verify all users and obtain parental permission from the parent of anyone under 18 who wants to open an account.

Netchoice took that appellate ruling up to the Supreme Court, who declined to overrule the Fifth Circuit with no explanation -- except for Justice Kavanaugh agreeing that we are likely to win the fight in the end, but saying that it's no big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime.

Needless to say, it's a big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime. The Mississippi law is a breathtaking state overreach: it forces us to verify the identity and age of every person who accesses Dreamwidth from the state of Mississippi and determine who's under the age of 18 by collecting identity documents, to save that highly personal and sensitive information, and then to obtain a permission slip from those users' parents to allow them to finish creating an account. It also forces us to change our moderation policies and stop anyone under 18 from accessing a wide variety of legal and beneficial speech because the state of Mississippi doesn't like it -- which, given the way Dreamwidth works, would mean blocking people from talking about those things at all. (And if you think you know exactly what kind of content the state of Mississippi doesn't like, you're absolutely right.)

Needless to say, we don't want to do that, either. Even if we wanted to, though, we can't: the resources it would take for us to build the systems that would let us do it are well beyond our capacity. You can read the sworn declaration I provided to the court for some examples of how unworkable these requirements are in practice. (That isn't even everything! The lawyers gave me a page limit!)

Unfortunately, the penalties for failing to comply with the Mississippi law are incredibly steep: fines of $10,000 per user from Mississippi who we don't have identity documents verifying age for, per incident -- which means every time someone from Mississippi loaded Dreamwidth, we'd potentially owe Mississippi $10,000. Even a single $10,000 fine would be rough for us, but the per-user, per-incident nature of the actual fine structure is an existential threat. And because we're part of the organization suing Mississippi over it, and were explicitly named in the now-overturned preliminary injunction, we think the risk of the state deciding to engage in retaliatory prosecution while the full legal challenge continues to work its way through the courts is a lot higher than we're comfortable with. Mississippi has been itching to issue those fines for a while, and while normally we wouldn't worry much because we're a small and obscure site, the fact that we've been yelling at them in court about the law being unconstitutional means the chance of them lumping us in with the big social media giants and trying to fine us is just too high for us to want to risk it. (The excellent lawyers we've been working with are Netchoice's lawyers, not ours!)

All of this means we've made the extremely painful decision that our only possible option for the time being is to block Mississippi IP addresses from accessing Dreamwidth, until we win the case. (And I repeat: I am absolutely incredibly confident we'll win the case. And apparently Justice Kavanaugh agrees!) I repeat: I am so, so sorry. This is the last thing we wanted to do, and I've been fighting my ass off for the last three years to prevent it. But, as everyone who follows the legal system knows, the Fifth Circuit is gonna do what it's gonna do, whether or not what they want to do has any relationship to the actual law.

We don't collect geolocation information ourselves, and we have no idea which of our users are residents of Mississippi. (We also don't want to know that, unless you choose to tell us.) Because of that, and because access to highly accurate geolocation databases is extremely expensive, our only option is to use our network provider's geolocation-based blocking to prevent connections from IP addresses they identify as being from Mississippi from even reaching Dreamwidth in the first place. I have no idea how accurate their geolocation is, and it's possible that some people not in Mississippi might also be affected by this block. (The inaccuracy of geolocation is only, like, the 27th most important reason on the list of "why this law is practically impossible for any site to comply with, much less a tiny site like us".)

If your IP address is identified as coming from Mississippi, beginning on September 1, you'll see a shorter, simpler version of this message and be unable to proceed to the site itself. If you would otherwise be affected, but you have a VPN or proxy service that masks your IP address and changes where your connection appears to come from, you won't get the block message, and you can keep using Dreamwidth the way you usually would.

On a completely unrelated note while I have you all here, have I mentioned lately that I really like ProtonVPN's service, privacy practices, and pricing? They also have a free tier available that, although limited to one device, has no ads or data caps and doesn't log your activity, unlike most of the free VPN services out there. VPNs are an excellent privacy and security tool that every user of the internet should be familiar with! We aren't affiliated with Proton and we don't get any kickbacks if you sign up with them, but I'm a satisfied customer and I wanted to take this chance to let you know that.

Again, we're so incredibly sorry to have to make this announcement, and I personally promise you that I will continue to fight this law, and all of the others like it that various states are passing, with every inch of the New Jersey-bred stubborn fightiness you've come to know and love over the last 16 years. The instant we think it's less legally risky for us to allow connections from Mississippi IP addresses, we'll undo the block and let you know.

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